Amanda Riley Wellness

Soul Mates

We often only speak on “soul mates” in reference to lovers. Soul mates do not only come in the lover form. Soul mates are humans you come across that are a part of your soul tribe in the spiritual world. In the spiritual world, our soul has time to evaluate and choose lessons that will be learned during the human journey. In soul land, these lessons seem like a great idea – in the human form these lessons can show up extremely painful. If we can get to the point that every experience we have is a learning opportunity that our soul asked for in the spirit world, we can alleviate some pain.

We have soul mates that are a part of our soul tribe and we have other souls that have agreed to help us teach our lessons.

Some come for a reason, some for a season, some for a lifetime.

The reasons come and leave swiftly to teach us lessons. They can even be a single “chance” encounter. These lessons can appear painful, or we can choose to take what they taught us and allow ourselves to grow – and prepare for the next lessons to come.

The seasons stay longer than reasons – whether it be for an actual season or a period of time – months, years…. they, too arrived to teach us lessons that we signed up for in soul land. They typically make a deeper impact on us and may even appear to teach us multiple lessons.

Then we have our lifetimers – these are the ones we agreed to find while in soul land and enjoy this earth bound experience with. They will teach us multiple lessons, and those lessons can be delivered with love and grace. They help us become better people. There is a deep connection with them.

We did not come here to suffer. We came here to learn, grow and explore. We are here to love and serve. We are here to heal soul injuries. We are here to help others heal their soul injuries, while we heal ours. Soul injuries can come in the form of generational bondage as well.

Side note – I was raised catholic and I spent most days questioning things in my head but not feeling like “I knew enough” to question things out loud. When I did comment on things not quite making sense to me, it would be shut down pretty quickly, I often felt like it was to sin to even question. Like all humans coming from Adam & Eve…like, what one day bam there were 2 humans and from their 2 sons the world was populated…there are some missing pieces in there? Genesis 1:27 “Let Us make man in Our image, after Our likeness, to rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, and over all the earth itself and every creature that crawls upon it.” Who is “Us” and “Our?” And when and why did that “Us” and “Our” become Him? Isn’t it odd that all the things the biblical god tells humans to watch out for in the devil, are the same things he tells us to worship him for? God is jealous? What? Why does every religion on the planet have a different god but the same devil? If god is the all mighty creator, why did he make us full of sin? How did the perfect god create such imperfect creatures? If god loves us, why would he ask us to sacrifice animals or other humans? Why did the Vatican feel it was better to protect the men who hurt women and children, then to protect the women and children? Women are the creatures of life, so why is it the father, son, holy ghost? Where did the feminine energy go and why? Often, I am told I just don’t know enough and bible verses are thrown at me. Jesus was white? Why do we celebrate Jesus’ birthday at Christmas, when all historians can easily prove he was likely born sometime in the spring – early summer and he certainly was not white? We criticize other belief systems on spirits, yet how did Mary get pregnant? I ask you to truly think about these questions. I ask you to not recite the bullshit that has been programmed in you and truly reflect on these questions.

My set of other questions – how many books of the bible have been removed to keep humanity manipulated and controlled? How many lies have we really been told? Why were our incredible powers hidden from us? Why was the feminine energy dismissed? I hear many feminist say it was an attack against women – but it wasn’t, it was an attack on humanity, humanity suffers from the dismissal of feminine energy. Religion has been used to manipulate and control us. Religion has been partnered up with powerful beings to spread lies and make one feel like there is something wrong with them when things don’t make sense. But God is without confusion, the truth is simple. So if questions can’t be answered with simple truths, we are being lied to. And lastly, isn’t it interesting that we were told to never discuss religion and politics? Why is that…and really think about it. My simple answer to this is the power of community, if things were discussed, lies would have been exposed, awakening the masses, making the manipulation and control impossible.

Now, let’s get back to this we are not here to suffer thing. We haven’t been given the full truth on our abilities to heal. One of the first documented source of information on the true power of healing comes from the Egyptians and so much of that info has been hidden from us. For clarity purposes, the more I learn, the more I realize I don’t know….so yes, I would 100% believe that many others could reference multiple ancient cultures with a vast amount of information. I mentioned Egyptians, do you know where their information is locked up? It is literally locked in the Vatican, why?

Now that I have totally stimulated your thoughts, and possibly your emotions as questioning these sorts of things can ruffle some feathers because no one likes their foundational belief systems looking bad, may you look at your life and see your soul mates and how they fall into a reason, season, and lifetime. You can choose to learn lessons with ease + grace or fight them tooth + nail, either way the lessons are coming and there really isn’t anything you can do to stop them. Your soul knows what it signed up for and it will acquire the lessons one way or another, so you might as well enjoy the ride with your tribe!

As always, there is plenty more to say about all of this, but this baseline information is valuable in itself. If you would like more information or want to connect with me, feel free to reach out via Facebook, Instagram, email or through my website, My mission is to empower you with education and healing to ignite your light, so you can shed what no longer serves you and step into the awesomeness of your divine badass self while sharing your unique gifts with love to others for the highest good of all!

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